Welcome to The Raw and Wild Hearts Podcast episode ‘A Good Death’. It is the final episode of Season 4! It feels quite fitting and very aligned.
Today we explore what it means to have a good death and how that can be one of the most profound catalysts to an exquisite life.
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Shownotes
The Pisces Blue SuperMoon
Rebrand/birth offer
Fracturing of our wholeness
Embracing death in everyday life
Deep nurture and care
Welcome to The Raw and Wild Hearts Podcast episode ‘The Call Of The Queen with Inarra Griffyn’.
We are in a very potent time. As we become more aligned with the cycles and season we reawaken the true power of our Queen energy. We live from softness with a courageous and confident execution at peak periods.
Join Inarra and I today as we discuss catalysts in soul growth and ascension, the power and celebration of Lammas, the cross-quarter holiday at the midway point between Summer Solstice and the Autumn Equinox and how Inarra magnetized into my life at the precipice of my biggest human breakthrough yet!
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Shownotes
A human awakening
Divine support and guidance
Power words
We meet in the physical
The ego desires
The money gene
Nature is our nature
Sensual reclamation
Manifestation Summit
Vanlife, The Sekr Way with Breanne Acio and Jess Shisler
Podcast Episode Summary
Welcome to today’s episode! The next one in my vanlife series! It’s called ‘Vanlife, The Sekr Way with Breanne Acio and Jess Shisler’.
I sit down to chat with Breanne and Jess about their app called Sekr,, which has helped thousands of outdoor enthusiasts connect, create community and find resources. Through empowerment, connection, and support, they promise to make your life while on the road a home. We talk all about their separate journeys into van life and what motivated them to join forces to create and nurture deeper community in this space.We also get into how important it is to build a life you love, create community for social wellness, find and offer authenticity in mental health, keep your dream alive amidst set backs, the reasons behind their re-brand and the importance of diversity and inclusion in the entire adventure industry.It’s a very informative and timely conversation to have, whether you are in van life or not.I often times find the energies that pop up in vanlife are at their core, the deep messages and themes that are true to human life.I’m super excited for you to hear their mission and message today!
Show Notes
Breanne and Jess’s start to vanlife
The birth of the Sekr app from experiences
Building a life you love
Favorite part of vanlife
Most difficult part of vanlife
Virtual vanlife meetups
How social connection affects our life satisfaction
The importance of mental health transparency and inquiries
The last time you asked how are you and meant it
People nearby feature
Vanlife is not about the vehicle, it’s a way of life
Re-branding to Sekr
The importance of diversity and inclusion in the adventure industry
Who is your dream guest and why?
Vanlife, Making Sweet Sweet Music with Ira Wolf and Lee Henke
Podcast Episode Summary
Welcome to today’s episode!It is so dang good.It is the first in my impromptu vanlife interviews and the bar has been set crazy high y’all.
Ira and Lee are so warm, hilarious and fun.Our conversation was engaging and thoughtful from the start.We are definitely on a first gathering post-Covid high and you can feel it.The energy is pumping.We get into the power in community, how Ira and Lee’s love and vanlife journey has unfolded, the healing vibration and vulnerability in sharing music, a live performance! What?Yep that and so much more.There’s talk of Alaska, hot tubs, mic drops and money!Come on along for an hour that is going to elevate your spirit in so many ways babes.
Show Notes
How vanlife and music collide for Ira and Lee
The first gathering post-Covid
The unfolding of Ira and Lee’s love
Doing vanlife together
The bond of living parallel lives
The power of support groups and community
The New Earth Living of creating your reality
Reframing bravery The shared experience of vanlife
“It’s Good To Be Back”
A beautiful live performance with Ira and Lee “Engine Trouble”
Lori loses her shit
Having an emotional support person
Sharing music is the ultimate vulnerability
The energy of live music compared to live streaming
Feeding off the energy of a crowd
The ultimate hot tub gig
An invitation from a place of vulnerability
Nothing is forever
A mic drop moment
We all had a hamster wheel jump in Covid
Some diamonds in the bottom of a dumpster fire
What does necessity mean?
Ira and Lee’s hearts are in the wilderness
Alaska calls
Lee’s dream starts with a saw and goes to Alaska
Being called back to the land
Show me the money!
Figuring out how to value ourselves in a whole new way
Art is necessary
Who is your dream guest be and why?
Generational gap jam session
To be a geese goose
Today Beany, Joanne and I talk about their conscious choice to plant roots in this community, where they could acquire land to specifically grow food and health.They have never stopped making that conscious choice and are enjoying the fruits of their labor now with booming business, building their new home and learning valuable lessons along the way.We get into the communities in the world known as Blue Zones and the following Blue Zones project that Joanne lead as the project coordinator.I point out that Beany and Joannne, in their various roles that emanate a frequency of love, are absolutely creating a Blue Zone of their own here in the area.We take an unexpected and heart warming turn down memory lane, we touch on Beany’s role in the minds of the youth and dive a little bit into the intersection of Spirituality and Religion in all of our lives.And then we talk about food again.Because it may just be food that heals the world.I know that’s where I’ve landed after this inspiring conversation with two beautiful lights I am honored to have as friends.IF you take anything from today, I do hope that you are inspired to support your local farms, learn about your food, go to farmers markets and begin to eat more seasonally since diversity is beneficial in every aspect of life.
Show Notes
Prayer talk
The growth that comes with discomfort
Our culture of convenience
Our history and beautiful friendship
Making a conscious choice to create a life in the Midwest
The acupuncture point of food
The intricacies of growing food for a community
The growing pains of community outreach and education in the beginning
Food is personal
The divinity in Beany and Joanne’s love
The acupuncture point of love
Still kids at heart
The acupuncture point of education
High school teacher or stand up comedian?
The acupuncture point of the health care system
The intertwining world of food and health care
The Blue Zones Project initiative
Beany and Joanne are creating a Blue Zone with how they show up
Some of the lifestyle habits of Blue Zones
Every interaction is an opportunity to learn
Holding the space for an intentional farm community
Two side of the small community coin
Following our guiding light
Where are you creating from?
Beany has a very beautiful and vulnerable share
The intersection between religion and spirituality
Beany and Joanne’s exploration of religion
Detaching from ego
Thinking of the church like family
Eclisiastis 7:13
You never know the angels that walk amongst us
Surrendering to Divine Time or God’s Plan
Who is your dream guest and why?
Educating locally
Cultivating health over years one person at a time
Vanlife, The Adventure Allens Create Life Their Own Way
Episode Summary
Chris and Taylor Allen are an absolute delight!They totally radiate love, joy and positivity, even after experiencing some devastating tragedies very early on in their relationship.We dive into the pillar of their strength together, how they navigated life-threatening hospitalizations, the ways that vanlife has supported them throughout those experiences, vanlife community and diversity and how they leaned into the learning curve of living small and mobile.We also get to hear their perspective on diversity and representation for people of color in vanlife and how it has evolved and progressed.They share exciting ideas for supporting others through caravans for representation, an inclusive Ebook about how they’ve done vanlife on their own terms and a developing tour guide business in the works for them.Seriously, we have such a ball in this episode!As my inaugural vanlifers for the podcast, I feel immense gratitude we made this connection.They have such love, openness and beautiful wisdom, there are many areas to draw from in this conversation!
Chris and Taylor also gave us some fantastic vanlife tips and tricks.Click on the link in the show notes below to receive this free download!
Show Notes
The beautiful couple energy emanating from The Allens
How The Allens met and what made it align so quickly
Online dating mishaps and persistence
Going old school and what made them jump all in
Partners as part of a whole, two halves working together
Learning experiences in the beginning created their groove
Tragedy early on in vanlife
From boatlife to vanlife
How Chris used his recovery to learn about vanlife
Community was a key to Chris’s recovery
Chris keeps calm as an EMT
Humor as medicine
Taylor goes through a medical trauma
Chris held it down through Taylor’s recovery
The van’s supportive role in both recoveries
What the vanlife community means to Chris and Taylor
The philosophy of adapt and overcome
Vanlife encourages creativity and innate human skills
The evolution of diversity in vanlife
The evolution of representation
New podcast called Nomads at the Intersection
Another called Black Nomads Meet featuring People of Color
Making uncomfortable conversations more comfortable
Covert vs overt racism
“If the vanlife community can transform in the celebration of diversity, that’s representation that the whole world can do it.”
Developing caravans for representation
An E-book in the works from a couple that started vanlife in a different way
The benefits of being in a caravan
There’s no book to how to live in the van correctly
Vanlife tour guides
Baha caravan!
Who are your dream guests and why?
The Adventure Allens are a safe space for your questions
Today I decided to have candid conversations with several colleagues about their thoughts on the Coronavirus and Quarantine.This comes in the fourth week of physical distancing.I wanted to get a feel for how people were moving through their process, personally and professionally.I just thought it might be good to be a little more informal and vulnerable and raw.We get into the mental process of the changes, financial fears, explorations of types of grief we may encounter, the environmental impact of a worldwide shut down, acknowledging the need for change in a system that is not supporting it’s citizens, listening to mother nature and so much more. I want to be clear, though, that these conversations are opinion-based.Although we are all healthcare professionals, we are not siting studies or data.We are expressing human experience and thoughts.I invite you to be curious in your reactions so that you can continue to uncover your own truths in your process and thank you for joining in ours.
Show Notes:
Mental process through the quarantine changes
Impending financial doom
Trying to keep perspective
Offering self-care tips and tools for sudden big computer use
Being of service is big work, hard work
The Great Surrender – In community more now in isolation
It’s not social distancing, it’s physical distancing
The generosity and connection of people in a crisis
What financial security could do for the health of humanity
Healers have to be out of survival mode in order to help people heal
Important to Look at how all care has been directed to the hospitals
Understanding the grief of fast change
It’s up to the human race if we can save ourselves
Sharing resources -the bigger picture you get, the less fear you have
Technology keep people alive longer than ever – underlying medical conditions
Newfound appreciation for nature and the earth
“Mom, Covid sucks”
There’s Covid and then there’s the American response to Covid
A beneficial environmental perspective, especially for our kids
Let’s listen to mother nature
Viruses are opportunistic
The thing we all need here is faith – How do you know you’re ok?
Closing the generational gap and learning from each other
Albert Einstein – Is the universe good or is the universe bad?
This article is an opinion piece. It does not replace medical advice, but it does encourage curiousity.
I know that title feels a little intense, but now that I grabbed your attention let me explain the evolutionary beauty of what a virus called Covid can do for a stunned nation, correction, world. I have been preparing for something like a superbug virus to hit humanity ever since I was drawn into the world of nature, herbs, homeostasis (or balance), nutrition, life quality, ancestral knowledge, miracles, magic, epigenetics, healing, energy and science. Yes, all of those wrapped up in one beautiful bundle of what we know as human existence. I do not approach health from politics. I approach it from my steadfast belief that we are all a part of this vast ecosystem and in that is where the ability to thrive, instead of survive, lies. I have a deep love for an entire universe that was meant to thrive together. Maybe this will be the time that humans finally fulfill their part to that equation. Maybe balance will become bigger than greed.
Sink or Swim
I have never believed it should be so hard to live. As an energetically sensitive soul I feel the world around me. I feel the suffering, I feel the pain. I feel the hopelessness. I also feel the excitement, the bliss, the utter beauty, the expansion and the love. The world continues to turn with all of it. As an adopted human, my fascination with roots and lineage has perhaps been heightened. I have felt wisdom coursing through my blood, but had no reference for it. It drove me to healthcare and world love. I wanted to ease the suffering. I wanted to elevate the quality of life. I wanted to honor this wisdom of my ancestors that told me life held an enlightenment beyond our cultural constraints. Fear has always repulsed me. The darkness around it has repelled me like a brick wall. I was told to tone down, not laugh so loud, be less, fit in. Lucky for me, I couldn’t do it and wouldn’t do it. This led me to take a good hard look at the culture around me that was working so hard to shape who I was to be, but adamantly refused. What I saw from a very young age was a linear fear-based system that thrived in status and control. I also saw the disempowerment of an entire species. I saw the evolution of people put into a system of rules and regulations that became a sink or swim paradigm. Most were either treading water nonstop to stay afloat and many sank, while a small percentage got a yacht. What kept people in the water? Fear. Corporations. 2-Party Politics. Big pharma. Greed. Debt. Sickness. Isolation. We have created a cycle of life that is spinning so fast it is virtually impossible to get off. You have to go harder and faster to keep up with everyone else. If you fall off, no one can help you because they have to go harder and faster to keep up with the rest. You are on your own. You are lost at sea.
Humans are unbelievably powerful. Think about how humans started out. We lived from a place of intuition, heart-centered, community support. We learned through our highly regarded elders and stories that activated our imagination. It took the whole village to make the world turn. What we learned from living in community were invaluable life skills not taught in a classroom. We became creative and resourceful when weather or circumstances shifted. We relied on the land, the plants, the earth to heal. The human body was revered and intentionally cared for. We have squandered the large majority of that power and intuitive guidance by following a system that preys on our fears, bases our healthcare in a mega industry filled with greed and corruption and puts us into a rigid school system reliant on a left-brained linear model. We learn to use the smallest part of a gigantic system of potential, which is our brain. Our life forces encompasses every aspect of our being. This evolution has put us in a place of severe imbalance and vulnerability. We have all been too busy and tired staying afloat to even question or disrupt the system.
The Great Surrender
What do I see happening with the covid evolution? I see a great surrender. A surrender we could never afford in a life that would be swallowed in a heartbeat. In that surrender comes trust. The trust I speak of is in humans. Humans that might finally be ready to band together for a universal cause. Humans that see the destruction and damage of what was “normal” life as we knew it. Humans that may be brought to their knees in the stark contrast between the gifting/kindness/love of strangers during this time to the lack of government support for those same strangers. Humans that see the true heros in their communities on the frontlines, fulfilling our hospital and basic needs. Humans that are snapped out of the state of stress that drove their lives and into a raw, real and vulnerable living that awakens their soul, in the dark times and light. Humans that have the time to take an inward dive and find their capacity to connect and care.
The Gifts of Covid
We have the opportunity to be intentional. This is how humans were made to thrive, with intention. Intention means care and care deepens our relationships. We have learned a life of avoidance so that we do not drown. Most of the time one more thing could be the weight that pulls us under. So we avoid hard conversations, we leave relationships, we react out of fear, we give up dreams to pay the bills, we lose ourselves to become a parent, partner, professional, we stay in relationships that were over long ago, we work jobs to have healthcare, we make decisions out of obligation and more. What if everything in your life became intentional? Close your eyes. What does that feel like? Every interaction, every action, every minute. This is an excellent time to take stock in how much of your life has been created out of intention.
I am thrilled to say that work and home life have collided, something we have spent years isolating from each other. During that process, our lives have gotten busier with more deadlines, appointments, commutes and stress. We have increased our environmental impact by creating an explosion of commuters. Environmental pollutants contribute to a decrease in cellular health, which increases disease. Stress is one of the biggest contributors to underlying health conditions. We have been distanced from our families at best because of time constraints, at worst because of emotional scarcity. This may add to children feeling more isolated and mentally unwell than ever before, contributing to some of the largest numbers of suicide and mass shootings the world has ever seen. The rigid lines we’ve formed to compartmentalize our lives are suddenly dissipating. Again, looking back to the beginnings humans worked and lived at home, on their land. I believe this could be the catalyst to a wonderful disintegration of the separation of work and family. We may have an epiphany that it’s possible when a virus forces our hand so why wouldn’t it be possible without.
People are gardening! Maybe it started out of a survival instinct, but maybe it will continue for the love of gardening and growing one’s own food, which means kicking those billion dollar corporations out of your mouth with their pesticides, chemicals, gmo’s, etc. This is part of your health revolution. This might just lead to bartering, crafting, creating and balancing. When we begin to use those parts of our right brain we open up a well of abilities and intuitions, which makes us more innovative and resourceful and that can bring a greater wealth than riches might ever bestow.
Birth is moving back to home. Y’all birth is moving back home! In 1900 98% of births were home births and as of the last statistical analysis 98% of births were hospital births, where births are routinely dominated and intervened with based on (guess what) fear and liability-based practices. Hospitals were already a dangerous environment filled with bacteria and virus, but this virus is changing the ability to birth with your partner and increasing risk to your newborn baby who needs to develop their immune system. So what can we expect with increased home birth rates? We can expect decreased medical interventions, increased immunity, better breastfeeding rates, less pelvic floor dysfunction and decreased postpartum depression rates with increased attachment and bonding. All of this information is available, but we have put so much trust into a for-profit system, it gets lost in the mix. Guess what all this means… a gentler society, a healthier society. Continuity of care is the most successful model for healthy pregnancies, natural labors/births and healthy babies who become healthy adults with stronger immunity. Do we still need the Western Medical System? Yes, of course. These medical advancements are life-saving. They should also be saved for the need for them. When they are not, they subsequently cause a cascade of interventions and complications in birth and immunity.
Underlying Exposure
What we have here is a nation of underlying sickness that has been exposed. We are now looking at a medical system that is appropriate to save lives at times, but not to sustain lives and definitely not to prevent illness. We have given over our medical autonomy because we are a culture reliant on quick medical fixes, pharmaceuticals and insurance systems that create more imbalance. We are overworked, overstretched, disengaged, avoidant and disempowered in relation to our health. A system that you put your trust into has failed you. We are surrounded by a convenience culture to support the unsustainable lifestyles that have only ramped up, which in turn has become the root of underlying illness. Fast food, processed foods, stress, sugar, leaky guts, mental health, sedentary lifestyles, obesity. It has all caught up with us. Viruses will always mutate. It’s in their nature. The harder we try to control them by creating a “fix”, the stronger they become. Nature is a beautiful beast. What if we created something inside of us that could exist with virus? This is the blessing of the message we are receiving. It can become your priority. If we listen, we can be the re-igniter and director of the beautiful orchestra of balance, strong health and fulfillment that comes from our inside out, not the from the outside in.
I’ve been hearing about all the coffee, alcohol and boredom. Let’s look at this. I don’t believe it should only be funny memes and pushed aside. Have a laugh, but then explore it more. Numbing ourselves misses the whole point of a pandemic, the lessons and the opportunity. This is the level of “numbing” that we have had to engage in our lives to survive. We’ve had no time to explore the vast wonder of humanness. Stop waiting to “restart” life! Do you want to go back to the way it was? Do you think there may be a different way to live? A way that creates a balance and peace within that a pandemic cannot shake? Start planning to “revamp” life!
Bottom Line
We are learning about what is most important in this lifetime, health. It takes something like a virus associated with a tragic death that shuts the world down. But guess what. We are napping! We are sleeping! Two of the quickest ways to health are sound sleep where your body can regenerate and repair, along with hydration. We are doing it because we have time to do it! It may feel unnatural to slow down, and if it does, take a good hard look at that. When we vibrate from a place of health (emotional, mental, physical, spiritual) we re-ignite our human again. This great surrender is a great opportunity to take the blinders off. Rather than wait to see if you might end up in the hospital, start caring deeply for your state of health. It’s a chance to feel how deeply you can go, how creative we can be. Turn off fear media that wants to prey on your stress. Find functional medical practitioners for information and support of homeostasis. We are made to heal. We are made to thrive. It is up to us to create the environment that supports our abilities. It’s go time!
Be curious about the message that being unproductive during this time is fine. I understand the sentiment, believe me I do. What I have to say is about a war, a revolution. Yes, take your time with your emotional process and be grateful that we can take that time. But go deeper, dig deeper because the fate of humanity and the earth is breaking through in these moments. We have an opportunity to not let things go back to normal. Ask yourself, was normal really working for you? For your family, your relationships, your health, your wellness, your emotional landscape, your capacity at enlightened fullfillment?
We are being reminded of the great ability of humans to be adaptable, flexible and fluid when not run ragged. I hope this wakes us all up. I hope we begin to utilize the time we have to look at an utterly broken and dysfunctional system that is not supportive in a time of crisis or even in our previous “normal”. Yes, this is uncomfortable. For some, much more than others. I don’t know of a time when great change happened without discomfort. I hope this becomes the fuel for you to want to help everyone out of the water and to truly believe that we can. How about we decide as a collective how that system and the people we hire through our votes can work best for the greater good?
Stay curious with your wellness, with information, with conversations, with politics, with news media, with the plight of people, with your own intuition. We can do this. I was born to believe in magic, the earth, humanity and you.
Lori Reising is the Host of The Raw and Wild Hearts Podcast, as well as a Retreat Leader, Speaker, Pelvic Floor Therapist, Childbirth Educator and Transpersonal Hypnotherapist.
I am talking today with Morgan Wade, a somatic therapist and hypnotherapist specializing in intimacy and embodiment. We are in unprecedented times with a global pandemic shifting life as we have known it.I believe we are on the precipice of dropping deeper into a society based in community instead of currency and for that I am excited.We are seeing how humanity is rising up to a global crisis and frankly I am proud, but we are also experiencing very real levels of collective grief pertaining to such dramatic change, as well as personal grief and loss from the virus itself.I wanted to get to some real talk about grief for support and understanding. We will explore the language of grief that comes after the sudden loss of a person and how it can be an access point to raw vulnerability and spirit, how loss is human and moments of enlightenment can sometimes be found on a kitchen or bathroom floor and we also look at how grief can become our teacher.We touch briefly on the stages of grief, but more so on the process of finding meaning in grief.In the end, our conversation becomes a beautifully woven exploration of this earthschool ride that we are all on together, in communityin these human bodies and in our hearts.As someone who had spent many years of my life in grief, this episode means the world to me.I want to offer some support to the many people out there experiencing loss on any plane and to normalize the gravity of what they may be feeling.I also want to offer support to the communities of those very same people so they might be able to hold space a little more without fear.Morgan offers exquisite insights from all sides.
Show Notes:
Our history – a kindred spirit connection
Morgan’s early relationship with grief
Grief is human and universal
We are all increasing each other’s bandwidth for holding discomfort
Grief as a direct access to raw vulnerability and spirit
The current layers of collective grief
Moments of enlightenment on the kitchen and bathroom floor
Molly McCord Might Just Narrate Your Life: Astrology, Divinity and You!
Episode Summary
My guest today is the magically inspiring Molly McCord. She is a bestselling author of ten books with over 50,000 downloads, intuitive astrologer, business strategist, radio show host, and modern consciousness teacher. She is a practicing intuitive astrologer who has connected with thousands of clients in over 30 countries, and she hosts a popular intuitive astrology podcast twice a week. We will dive into the beautiful gifts she offers the world with her astrological knowledge and intuitive messages, our own unique intuitive abilities, the support natal charts can offer, the power of 2020 astrology, mercury retrogrades, divine timing and more.
Show Notes:
We will be celebrating the divine magic in humans by exploring our divinity and the abundance in our astrological connections. Molly McCord sees you: the divinity, the potential, the growth, the magic.She wants you to fulfill your soul’s mission by sharing her vast knowledge of astrology and the spot on downloads and messages she receives from her guides.She will come back time and again and assure you that you are exactly where you need to be and that the your life is unfolding with perfect timing.We are going to explore this and the wild ride we are all taking in 2020 and this new powerfully expansive decade!If you ever wanted to know about eclipses, retrogrades and divine timing stick around! This is going to be so much FUN! Also, I’d like to note that during the taping of the episode I mispronounced Chani Nicholas’s name when we covered the dream guest topic and that is the reason Molly did not know who I was referring to. Molly definitely knows Chani. I’m so sorry for my slip up to Molly and to Chani, two of our greatest astrologers who are putting magic out and changing the world!
Our history, how we met
Astrology is my religion, you are my church
Molly McCord is a badass
Intuitive magic – developing your own unique intuition muscle
Natal charts – what they can reveal and how to work with them
2020 astrology and the powerful new decade
Mercury retrogrades – how to make them work for you